Malva aids in stopping the cycles of rejection. For many of us, life is always about what we perceive things to be and not what they necessarily are in reality. An initial trauma of rejection can sensitize a person to further perceived “slights” any time another falls short of what is expected in the relationship. This can cause distancing—“I’ll leave so you can’t hurt me”—or hostility, which prompts those they are in relationship with to also become defensive and withdraw. The cycle completes with the person feeling justified in their initial perception. For animals caught in a self-fulfilling rejection cycle. The shelter dog who growls at every potential adopter, confirming their decision to keep walking. The cat who swats and hisses at the new family member, then hides and acts wounded when they stop trying. The horse who pins his ears and threatens anyone who enters the stall, then stands alone looking depressed. Malva addresses the pattern where an early experience of rejection sensitized the animal to expect it everywhere, so they behave in ways that guarantee they'll be rejected again. It softens the defensive hostility that pushes away the very connection the animal desperately wants. This is a foundational essence for difficult-to-adopt shelter animals and for animals in new homes who keep sabotaging the bond. Malva helps the animal stay present long enough to experience that this time might be different. From the Freedom Flowers A-Z of flower essences for animals. See the full reference for related essences, pet blends, and situational guidance.
Malva helps to desensitize, soothe, and unravel the reinforced patterning. Helping to interrupt the rejection cycle is the only way to obtain what’s needed through relationships. Malva prompts the bravery needed to stay and experience the reality that’s beyond the initial perception, and soften the feelings of paranoia and not being loved. For Animals
- Heart Healer flower essence uses Malva to help with rejection in heartbreak and betrayal.
This is a 1 oz bottle that should last about a month of daily dosing.
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